Tag: coming-of-age

  • Me Before You

    Me Before You

    Rating: 5 Stars

    Age Recommendation: 17+ (Adult fiction/late Young Adult readers)

    Warnings: Triggers include strong language, character self-harm, character death, rape, and potential additional triggers for those living with or assisting those with disabilities

    Genres: Fiction, Drama, Coming-of-Age, Medical, Romance

    Pages: 409 (Paperback, Movie-tie-in edition)


    “I worked out what would make me happy, and I worked out what I wanted to do, and I trained myself to do the job that would make those two things happen.”

    “You make it sound so simple.”

    “It is simple,” he said. “The thing is, it’s also hard work. And people don’t want to put in a lot of work.”


     

    Jojo Moyes, author of Me Before You, has written several other novels that I have not yet had the pleasure of reading, but this story is “scored on my heart,” as one of her characters might say. In truth, I picked it up initially because the film adaptation recently came out, but also because of a plethora of positive reviews I found on places across the internet. What I did not expect to find was a story that boldly addressed topics that many authors would shy away from.

    I did not expect to love Me Before You as much as I did. I knew, from the tellings of others, that it would probably make me cry. I’m a bit of a sap, which perhaps is why my tears lasted like fifty pages. I can own up to that. But usually it’s only movies, or books like Zusak’s The Book Thief that can get the waterworks turned on.

    The themes of choice, love, sacrifice and fear run rampant through this novel in the best possible way. Morals will be questioned, even on the reader’s part, and the recurring through had throughout might be something along the lines of “Why does my heart hurt?” Because it’s truly gut-wrenching in a way that only the most honest and brave stories can be.

    As with every book, it is sort of my job to point out any confusing parts or flaws that the book seems to possess. In this book, I only found one. Sometimes the point-of-view changes and can be confusing. For reference, if there is no name listed at the beginning of the chapter, then the POV has reverted back to that of our main character.

    For someone like me, who has spent a great deal of time in the United Kingdom, the slang, names and terminology used in Me Before You was easy to follow. It might be worth, however, checking if you aren’t sure. There are many things that, while reading, I realized I would have interpreted entirely differently before moving abroad. Now that I’m back home, it’s almost funny to think I wouldn’t have noticed before moving.

    As I write this, I am waiting for my mother to gather her things so we can go out and watch the movie, even though I only finished the book a few hours ago. Somehow, I just can’t get enough of it. I’ve shelved it with my other favorites and I have the distinct feeling that this might be one of those books I re-read every summer, just to remind myself of the lessons Moyes offers the reader.

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  • How to Grow an Addict

    How to Grow an Addict

    How to Grow an Addict by J.A. Wright is a page turner without a doubt. From the very first page, you’re drawn into the main character Randall Granges world and how her story will end.

    Randall’s story is a heartbreakingly beautiful one. From getting drunk at the age of 10 to being 23 and full blown addict on her way to recovery. I personally was drawn to the way Wright shows weak moments in Randall’s life and why she felt the need to reach for alcohol or pills. Wright does an amazing job of showing Randall’s progression in being an addict. Coming from a dysfunctional family In no way helped her but she (at least for a while) had her Aunt Flo and Uncle Hank until tragedy strikes. Going to her aunt and uncles house really kept Randall busy and away from her home troubles. It was sad to see Randall return back home with her mother, father, and brother.

    I feel as though Randall’s father was the biggest contributor to her addiction. At the age of 10, at a birthday he serves her whiskey, getting her drunk for the first time. Now although she did have her mother, she wasn’t in any way a great mom. She was never emotionally there for Randall and would give her sleeping pills because it was convenient which ultimately led to Randall’s addiction to narcotics. Now, her brother Robbie never helped her with anything and blamed her for everything. He treated her awful even though Randall was there for him always and looked up to him.

    One can understand why Randall felt the need to depend on something to make her feel better or take her mind off things. Near the end, we’ve learned a lot about Randall and can’t help but want to run up to her and give her a hug she so desperately needs. From being sexually harassed more than once to being in an abusive relationship and not having a support system, you want to tell Randall that maybe she doesn’t know it now but everything is going to be fine.

    As How to Grow an Addict comes to a close, we find Randall has been involuntarily put into a rehab institution. Of course, she wakes up there and wants to immediately leave, but the more time she spends there and the more people she talks to, she has a new sense of wanting to change her life around. Ultimately in this life and what I learned from this book is that sometimes you get chances to fix your life and it’s up to you to jump on them. This book brings you on a beautiful but tragic journey of a girl who couldn’t find her way in the beginning but gets a second chance at life and gets a retry, something she so desperately needed. I think the message of this book is to learn from your mistakes. Randall made many mistakes and paid for them, but what How to Grow an Addict shows is that you learn from mistakes and thankfully Randall did learn.

    Rating: 4 out of 5

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